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As i read the article 'Fickle friend' written by Kirsten Weir, i came to know that ambivalent friends are usually a backstabber and also people who love to broke the promises. hypocrite and insincerity relationship can give negative impact toward our health such as blood pressure, and also depression. However, some people insist to keep fickle friends with them as they think having lots of friends can bring happiness even though there is no sincerity. While, the others thinks that amount of friends did not promise contentment. People that have ambivalent friends tend to have higher blood pressure as it involves feelings of dislike. However, if somebody insists to keep their frenemies with them, they should know how to manage the relationship well so that there will be no hurt feelings.

A good friends and friendship will make us happy and joyful. However, having an ambivalent friend can give bad effect on our health mentally and physically. Negative relationship with friends can make is weaken, stress and increasing blood pressure. There may be many friends at the time of prosperity. However, most of them desert at the time of adversity. We can examine the sincerity of a friend when we are in a suffering and trouble. Only a sincere and faithful friend remains with us at the time of our trouble while the other would leave us. Having a lot of friend can make our life happy as we laughed and shared happy time with them. However, not all of our friends are honest as sometimes they can be fake in front of us. For example, they always keep us waiting and make excuses as to why they did not call us. Everything that they did with us is half-truths and it always hurt our feeling.

Bad friendships can hurt feelings and can hurt our health too. This is because when we are argue with our friend, we would feel depress and angry. This type of negative social interaction can also increase inflammation. Furthermore, we should not keep fickle friends by our side. This is because instead of keep the indecisive one with us, we should make friend with people who sincere and can accept us whoever we are. Fickle friends tend to make us sad and feel down. They are care less about us. They may also stay mad at us when we are in a fight. Besides, the people we been friend with change who we are. When we spend hours upon hours with these people, after a while we are going to start to mimic their behavior. This is because our friends change us to be good or bad.