FiCKLe FRiEnDs

Who are our friends? do we really know them? fickle friends or known as ambivalent friends are usually a backstabber and also people who love to broke the promises. Friendship is a complicated relationship and we need to find the one that can lend their shoulders for us to cry on and can hold our hand whenever we fall.

As we are in a relationship that called friendship, how to identify fickle friends? How to identify whether the people we friends with are good or bad? Bad friend usually cling on to you as you are popular, rich, and beautiful. while good friends will accept you as who you are like the said by William Shakespeare, “A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allow you to grow.”

just imagine the friends who laugh together with you, share some gossip and story with you are actually fake. what would you do? keep them by your side or being hypocrite and act like you are happy to have that kind of friend in your life? yes, we can stay to be friend with them, but at the end we are the one going to be hurt. in this life, we should find a good companion that understand us, friends who can reprimand any offensives things that we have done and advise us as well as always by our side in any condition. me myself hope that I have only very good friends beside me.